I arrived on May 15th with my mother. As she is the best mother in the world, she happily came to help me get settled in. Everything here was waiting for me - my apartment and my job. Both two things since December had been causing me way too much stress. The paperwork involved in getting a stagiaire visa to come to France for three months is unimaginable and finding a furnished apartment is also hell. What I learned was that firstly, the french consulate in New York and probably everywhere is so unorganized its insane and secondly, never ever trust someone posting an advertisement about renting their apartment that is way too good to be true and further followed up wanting you to make a wire transfer through western union and provide them a copy of your passport. Yes, I was almost scammed!
Thankfully everything came into place as my parents kept promising it would and I got my visa and found an apartment. My apartment in the 9eme arrondisement very close to two metro stations which is very convenient. I also live a two minute walk to a monoprix - the grocery store and many little cafes and restaurants. I am also a five minute walk to the Moulin Rouge. When I told my Grandmother Meme - my father's mother who lived in Paris before coming to Montreal years ago - this she freaked out!!! She was so worried and told me that I must make sure I stay SAFE - and I am pretty sure by the amount of times she repeated herself, she didn't just mean walking on the street! The biggest shock of all was by far arriving to the apartment with my mother from the airport and realizing that my neighbors are none other than SEX SHOPS. I don't just mean one shop, but one after the other after the other!!! I quickly discovered that they each have their own speciality and cater to all different fetishes. You learnsomething new every day. Now, a week later, the initial shock has subsided and I now really feel comfortable in my neighborhood. I have come to realize that what seems like the Red Light District is actually very touristic and truly kitschy. Because it is so touristic, there are people on the streets at all hours which is better than
living in a very residential area which would be rather quiet. Here is a view from my window to give you a sense.
My mother did the most amazing job and helping me get settled in. I started work on Tuesday - was supposed to start Monday but felt ill - and the best mom ever chose to extend her trip two extra days because she wanted to make sure I was alright. This also gave her more days while I was working to find other odds and ends that she thought would make my life here in the apartment easier. THANKS SO MUCH MOM.
My stage is at a Communication/Design agency called
Upside Down (www.upsidedown.fr). I was quite unclear of what the business actually did before I arrived, but now I have a better sense. It is kind of like an advertising agency of sorts. Upside Down creates DVD, Music CD covers to book covers to the packaging of Power Ranger figurines. The team is very small - about 12 people total. There are three sub-teams - production, communication and graphic design. I am a stagaire in production. The communication people find the clients, we the producers decide what we will make and we work with the graphic designers to produce the product for the client. My boss is Cyril and Emilie and there is another stagiaire named JP who I work alongside.
My first week went very well. As the week continued, it got better each day as I was given more to do - I am sure that it will keep getting better. Everyone is very nice and helpful with the fact that French is not my first language.
I would like to point out some interesting things about the french workplace that are VERY different from anything that I am used to:
1) For the Parisians - the déjeuner or lunch break is very important - and takes an hour and a half! This means that at 1:30 or should I say 13h30 lunch starts and we can eat at the office or go out and work resumes at 15h. I am used to a 20 minute lunch break or eating at your desk. What I ha
ve come to discover is that the déjeuner is the most important meal where the french eat a lot thus eat a very light diner. I have come to follow this regime as I finish work at 19hr and by the time I get home I don't have the appetite to eat a large meal.
2) To continue on with the topic of déjeuner. I was very worried that I would have to go out and buy lunch every day because it is not 'cool' here to bring your lunch to work, however thankfully my worries were quickly pushed aside. I was introduced to Picard my first day. This will make all of you so jealous! Think lean cuisine french style - www.picard.fr. It is a frozen grocery store which has frozen vegetables to frozen mini salmon tartars to frozen sushi and even frozen gourmet desserts. For lunch, the majority of my colleagues buy stuff from the picard down the street and heat up their meals which you could honestly mistaken for something ordered at a restaurant. My boss had risotto with artichoke hearts and grilled zucchini - looked incredible. Today, I went to the first time and bought grilled vegetables, ratatouille, frozen fruit (which included fresh figs) and wonton soup. I tried the ratatouille and it was so yummy.
3) We had congé on Thursday because of some national holiday that related to Easter and on Friday when I got to the office - I arrived second. Emilie was there and JP was the next person to arrive. He greeted Emilie with two kisses on the cheek and then came over to do the same to me - very odd. Then one of the Graphic Designer's Thierry arrived and did the same to us both. I guess it is how you greet people in the workplace. As I am writing about this - it doesn't seems as weird to me as it was that moment. Anyways...
4) The majority of the women wear heels to the office. I will not be doing that! I am very happy in my sandals.
Today was the first day I have gotten to explore my neighborhood. I headed to the lower end of my arrondissement and did a little shopping in the morning to try and get some comfortable clothes appropriate for work. I am finding it very easy to navigate around the city. It is as easy to walk as it is to take the metro. I was trying to figure out why this metro seems a lot easier than the Subway in New York and I realized that these are the differences:
1) In Paris there are Metro stops every five minute walking distance in all directions. In New York there are not.
2) Here only one train runs on the track and not multiple different ones like in New York - the express/the local for example. There are only local trains here.
3) There are big signs which tell you the stops the train will be making before you decide if you are taking the correct passageway that will lead you to the train going the right direction. In New York, you are lucky if the signs have not been ripped down.
4) The monthly subways passes called NAVI-GO are magnetic so you don't even need to take it out of your purse to swipe in.
I have not yet taken the Bus - it seems a little more complicated than the Metro but I am sure I will figure it our someday soon.

I came home after my shopping expedition and was very happy just chilling on my computer, however I forced myself to go out and explore the upper part of my neighborhood that leads into Montmartre. I walked around and fell upon some very cute cafés and stores. There were also a number of art galleries with some interesting art. I made my way to Sacre Coeur which is the church on the top of the hill in Montmatre and sat on the grass below it for a little while. As I looked around, I was sadly sitting alone while many others were having romantic picnics or with a big group of people talking - however I am sure I will meet people soon enough. In France you are able to purchase alcohol of all kinds at any grocery store or boulangerie. What I discovered today is that you are also allowed to drink it in public areas - something that is strictly forbidden in the US and Canada. I am excited to have a picnic or just chill with some friends and drink wine in a park.
I left there and on my walk home, I struggled with if I wanted to stop at a café for a drink or go home. I would never feel comfortable in New York or Montreal going to a Bar or Lounge and having a drink alone, however here it seems different. I was unsure how I felt about it but decided to try it out. I went to the Long Island Cocktail bar that is down my street that has a happy hour from 14hr-22hr. I ordered a Kir au Chablis, pulled out my book - Eat, Pray,

Love and began to read, drink and relax while munching on peanuts. There was an italian couple on my left and no one on my right until a couple that spoke only English sat down nearing the end of my drink. The woman asked the waitress for an astray to smoke and she replied that she couldn't give her one as they are illegal in France - how shocking! They would rather you ash and put your butt on the street. I don't really get it but hey they're French - there are some things we will never get. Anyways this is what got us talking. I learned they were fellow Canadians from London, Ontario. They arrived yesterday and are here for 10 days. I had a nice conversation with them and then chose to take my leave.
Tomorrow morning I am meeting Nathalie, my boss and friend - the owner of Upside Down - at her apartment to go to the Club Med Gym she goes to. We are doing a Body Combat and Body Pump workout class. We will see how the French do workout classes!